An Example of Immaturity
A very long time ago a few friends and I thought it would be fun to demolish an older looking bike that was left in the field at school. I don’t remember if we knew it had an owner or not but destroy we did. And the next morning we found ourselves in the Principal’s office, being asked: “Why would you do that?” We walked out of the office with that question on our minds, a sour feeling in our stomachs. The question remains to this day, I don’t ask it of myself much anymore, as I have grown mature enough to see the stupidity.
You’re probably wondering where all of this is coming from as it was only a week ago when I was telling you how much you mean to me and how much I’m going to miss you. Well, my Sister had to fill out her second statement for the police at the age of ten. The first report was because of some creeper following her home (I’m just gonna go on record in my parenthesis here and say that 30 year old guys who’ve “got it” for a 10 year-olds need to be tarred, feathered and left to slowly waste away in a horrible death.) The reason for her second statement was because when she was playing at the park with her friends a group of kids came up and stole the cell phone she was carrying. When she confronted them they said they didn’t have it. Which was the truth, but only because they had shortly before snapped it in half and thrown it into the field. My sister ran to my Aunt and Uncle who were close by who went after them. My family didn’t catch up to them, however, the Police did and the foster parent of the hoodlums agreed to pay for the cell phone.
The 3 thirteen year-old girls, along with a boy of the same age, were able to feel superior to my sister 3 years their junior for about 10 minutes. And in return had to deal with the Police, owe us over $300 and will probably suffer the consequences over the summer, assuming the foster-parents know how to do their jobs. It is very unfortunate that these children are, most likely, from broken homes and that they probably have never really had a chance. I wish that somehow there were something someone could do to prevent kids having to grow up thinking that being rude is the cool thing to do. I feel like a father figure sometimes with my sister and I worry she might get caught up in that group that will, unfortunately, last until the end of High school (don’t worry, their powers start to wear thin as you get older.)
Since I’m pretty sure that the influence I have over people is very little, if at all and even then it is only over people who are within a two-year range of me, I won’t drive this point over and over again. But, if you are looking to have kids in the future I beg you to make them see that making someone feel less significant isn’t an accomplishment. Or who knows you might just be the Father/Mother of the next school bully.
-Teck
Edited: We worked it out!
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Well, I'm glad you enjoyed it. And I'm glad that you feel the same way. Let's just not make this a big "Bashing Amy Fest" or we'll just be as bad as what we're fighting against.
-Teck
I'm a loser. I have been my whole life.
And I couldn't be happier
Hey Terry. It's Kevin. I was there at my baseball game when this happend and I feel really bad about what happend to Haylea.
This is what happend in a small city or ours. I wouldn't ever wanna be in a big city because it would get brutal.
I am pretty sure that the incident did a deal on Haylea phycology so tell her that its ok and fight through it.
Well thats all i will write.
Ciao,
Kevin
Your overall message was good, but it was completely contradicted by your ending. And next time you put someone in a stereotypical role, you should know more about them than the fact that they are just plain better than you.
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Not trying to play devil's advocate. But I think Amy has a point. I've known her for a great deal of my life so I hope what I say carries some weight.
It's fighting fire with fire, there is no right side here. Amy is notoriously known as that stereotypical "popular girl". When I saw the "Seniors Bow Down" shirt they were wearing, I was fucking mad as hell to see something as condescending and malevolent natured as that. I made it well known as well.
But in Amy's defence, her name being put on the internet is pretty harsh, and the whole teaming up thing would be upsetting. I would know this first hand and it's not that fun (Well sometimes it is)
Amy and I don't speak on regular terms at this point, but I have nothing against her, she has never done anything to wrong me so I have no reason to dislike her, but as it stands I think you guys are being unfair to her. Pce
Amy Sherwin and I have talked and we have come to an agreement. It seems that Amy really didn't see how much she was hurting people. She has informed me that she will be posting her feelings in the comments section soon.
Some things were also said in the comments section that were just plain mean (unfortunately with some truth) and those have been taken down. A few posts from Amy, herself, have also been taken down by request.
As it was also pretty weak of me to mention her name without talking to her first I have replaced her name in my post.
Thank you Jeff, you're right, we don't talk on a regular basis so your comment really surprised me and I'm grateful that you'd stick up for me and it does mean something. Terry's right we talked things over this morning after me raging about how people could say those things about me. Truth of the matter is that I honestly didn't know how bad I hurt people. From talking to Terry I still don't even completely know how bad I did. I want to flat out say I'm sorry. I don't know who I hurt or how but if you have something to say to me I'll gladly talk to you about it because I'm not the cold hearted bitch you all seem to think I am. Yes, I have a temper and I'm not afraid to show it when you piss me off and yes I'm blunt, but I'm also reasonable and I'll tlak about things untill they're solved and whoevers in the wrong backs down (hence my talk with Terry today) I felt as though he needed to shut up and I had done nothing wrong. By proving examples, he made me realize that I am in the wrong and I need to be softer towards people. I've been through a lot over the years to do with friends, boyfriends and family making myself have a hard shell that isn't easy to break into. I didnt mean to hurt people by it, guaranteed I've been hurt just as much as the rest of you, if not more. So as crazy as it might be to believe I do have feelings and now what it's like to feel like shit and don't intentionally want to make people feel like that. Everyone gets hurt though. It's all a matter of how you deal with it. How am I to know if I hurt people if no one ever says anything or does anything about it? The way I acted honestly didn't seem mean so I just wish people had a little more guts I guess to face me and speak their minds.
I really would like to talk to anyone that i've really hurt. I want to know what I did and apologize for it.Highschool is over and I want to leave all the highschool bullshit and opinions in highschool. It's a new chapter in everyones life. So don't be afraid to add me or come up and talk to me because I wont rip your face off or do whatever you have in mind that you think I might do.
P.S. The girls and I made those "Bow Down" t-shirts for initiation last summer. We wore them on the last day of school because it's the last day we ever could. We didn't wear them so the grade 12s could think we were trying to show them up. We made them so the grade 10s in a way looked up to us just like how it's been done every year. Sorry if some people took effence to that.
dollface_barbie_07@hotmail.com
That's Amy's E-mail for anyone who would like to contact her about anything.
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